A lot of people have the mistake of trying to please other into liking them, instead of bettering yourself and let other people find you. I have made this mistake pretty much my whole life. I have probably been stuck on about 3 three girls since Freshmen year of High School. I always knew deep down that it wasn't worth it, but I never really tried to not let it bother me.
All three of them were semi friends, while one of them actually being a friend for a while. I am currently single, and have a new prospective on relationships. I can't go back to an ex, and become friends with them, which I just found out not too long ago.
There is something I can do, and that is to go after what I want. Not in a Relationship kind of way, but in my own way. I am not going to sit here and say I do NOT want a relationship, but I can say that I will not be looking for one. This all came in after realizing I have wasted some much time on a certain situations instead of moving on.
I have made mistakes of not doing what I truly want, because I didn't want to leave people (I thought cared about). Never make a mistake like not doing what you truly have an ambition for, if the other person doesn't want you to fulfill it.
Everybody has personal goals, like getting a new promotion, getting fit, or finding new hobbies. I am currently going through a job search, and at this point, I don't really care if I leave Oklahoma to find a job, as long as I will be getting paid enough for a car and a house (even renting). I also have a goal of a 6 pack. I have always been skinny (Very High Metabolism), but I have never had a six pack. I need to start having a more strict diet, and maybe running a little bit more. I will explain my third suggestion, having a hobby. I have a few hobbies, like playing games, learning new things, and a few others.
I have first hand experience of hard times, but I also know what it like to be with someone who makes you happier than ever. I always tell my self that it's suck right now, but sometime someone will be the apply in your eye, and if not, at least you know you are the best you can be.
Do you find yourself believing this? If so, what have you done to better yourself? Please comment and share your experience.
All three of them were semi friends, while one of them actually being a friend for a while. I am currently single, and have a new prospective on relationships. I can't go back to an ex, and become friends with them, which I just found out not too long ago.
There is something I can do, and that is to go after what I want. Not in a Relationship kind of way, but in my own way. I am not going to sit here and say I do NOT want a relationship, but I can say that I will not be looking for one. This all came in after realizing I have wasted some much time on a certain situations instead of moving on.
I have made mistakes of not doing what I truly want, because I didn't want to leave people (I thought cared about). Never make a mistake like not doing what you truly have an ambition for, if the other person doesn't want you to fulfill it.
Everybody has personal goals, like getting a new promotion, getting fit, or finding new hobbies. I am currently going through a job search, and at this point, I don't really care if I leave Oklahoma to find a job, as long as I will be getting paid enough for a car and a house (even renting). I also have a goal of a 6 pack. I have always been skinny (Very High Metabolism), but I have never had a six pack. I need to start having a more strict diet, and maybe running a little bit more. I will explain my third suggestion, having a hobby. I have a few hobbies, like playing games, learning new things, and a few others.
I have first hand experience of hard times, but I also know what it like to be with someone who makes you happier than ever. I always tell my self that it's suck right now, but sometime someone will be the apply in your eye, and if not, at least you know you are the best you can be.
Do you find yourself believing this? If so, what have you done to better yourself? Please comment and share your experience.
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